Hi Nomopo My H hasn't left yet but I think it's coming. I plan not to contact him but to be upbeat if he contacts me. My problem will be that our adult son lives with me and I am sure my H will ask him about me. I am going to have to keep being upbeat so my son doesn't report negative behaviours to his father. This will be hard. I'd love to be able to let go and scream the house down and get pissed out of my mind. Having said that my son is often out so I suppose I'd manage. I don't really want to involve my son unnecessarily.
