Ditto that CVA. I am not afraid to prolong my S now. I don't like it...but...if I find W does want to continue working, then as Michelle says, "Don't change a thing. It's working isn't it?"
I never thought that changing the S could be bad! Now I am prepared for it as something that won't hurt (the M, not me) as much, and can actually get me closer to her. Wierd.


Me 32
WAW 30
D Bomb 7/9
Separated 7/15
Reiterated bomb 8/12
PA 8/21
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