Have Faith - I'm not sure what you say I am doing? I am facing what is happening now and it's absolutely the most destructive thing I have ever experienced. He knows I know and still it carries on and still we live together.
I do require an open and honest M but right now my H is not being open and honest with me: that's why I can't show all my cards now. Maybe one day. I know that stats say if they've done it once, they'll do it again and that's why I would be on my guard. It would be a long time before my trust was restored and I really believe M is different after A's.I would certainly not assume the M would be open and honest that's why I would still not show my cards. If I am ever in this position again, after reconciliation, I will not try to DB. That would be it.
