Now don't get me wrong, the S has sucked and I am not at all sure I would put my kids through a S again if it were up to me in a do-over, BUT . . I DO see some positives. I do think it has been productive for me, and for her, and hopefully for us. And it feels REALLY weird saying that, but it's true. And it feels honest. I said before that I think our S might have been unavoidable if we were to have a chance to save our M, and now I think (given W's mindframe and what I needed to learn) that is was absolutely necessary. So I probably would put my kids through again (in these exact same circumstances).
Nomo, hmmm, that got ME thinking now. At the beginning, S was a dirty word, now, even though it does "suck", it has changed my outlook for sure.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.