Does he know you will be staying over at a friend's tonight?
If he took the time to read the book, then he is definitely not through with this relationship! It may take time to sink in, but just the fact that he read it is a great sign. I know it is easier to be optimistic when you are on the outside of the situation, but it doesn't seem at all hopeless to me. Just keep it up!
Me: 30 H: 28 Separated: 06/01/07 D bomb: 07/17/07 after me pushing and pushing! #2 bomb: 08/13/07 Once again, I pushed!! #3 bomb: 01/08/08 Previous Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1322680&page=0&fpart=1