Separated from WAW

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Well, I texted W to let her know I was stopping by and ended it with "is that OK?"
She called me almost immediately, apologized for not calling back but did not have time and then knew I was out. I said it was no biggie, I said I wasn't sure if leaving the card was pushing things. Anyway, she was glad I was stopping by b/c that gives her more time to visit her old cats that she is watching this week at a friend's house. She asked about Sunday and we settled on 4:00. That's when it all goes down! I asked how she was and she said "pretty good" in a confident way. Asked me, and I said, "Good, hanging in there." in a not as confident way. Talked to her about the pipe I hope to fix while she and parents are out fo the house tomorrow. I think I ended up explaining everything about plumbing, finally realized and shut up. Said, "have a good weekend and I will see you Sunday."
I am still very worried that she is ready to give up, but have a working plan of how to begin and what to say to get her looking to the future and reassuring her that I am not looking for commitment/guarantee. Just that we should give ourselves time to work with C and fidn out how much of what has happened can be fixed/changed once we realize why we were acting that way. I have 'stolen' bits of convo's from several of you and plan on consolidating the parts that best apply to my M. Hope to post a version of that Saturday afternoon/evening. So please check back that night or Sunday morn and let me know what you think. It's nice to know we have a team here!
PS I'm VERY curious if she will be wearing rings when I come over, as well as when her parents are in town. Just on my mind, not dwelling...as much as possible.