I'm new to posting but have been reading the threads for about two years. I consider myself LD but only in the idea that I am lesser drive than my H, not low drive or no drive. Anyway the questions I have:
1. I agree with the "use it or lose it" but how long would you say it takes on average to lose it? It seems after three days of no sex, I lose it. 2. I find sex without desire to be mediocre but how do you get desire back without "just doing it" ?
Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)
