NJ - that is (basically" what AD are all about. They definitely don't take away your problems, they just make it easier to deal with them and sort through things a little more rationally

I know it has helped my H (and it did me too) to stop the obsessing big time. He would take the smallest of issues and talk for hours about it - it is VERY exhausting and produces nothing

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)