Need Help!!!

[NoDirection]

Thanks,
I have a 22 month old son and that is the primary reason I am staying in this. Of course I still love my wife but it has been hard. I have been DB'ing for about a month now and working on myself.

I have seen some improvements since I have began. She is prone to go to events with me as well as with the family more often and is very quick to ask what I am doing when I tell her I am going out. This past week she has continued to analyze my appearance as she did before all of this began.

She has been upfront of who, the OM, she is spending time with. When I have questioned her about it in the past she has been very deliberate that they are nothing more than "friends". But when he calls at all hours of the night and text nonstop I think there is more.

Through all this I have been able to rediscover religion and God has had a funny way laying things out for how I should act if we do work this out.