The thing about "rallying troups", is that you have to be sure you are rallying "your" troups.
Not everyone is going to be positive towards your marriage. In fact, it's almost certain there will be some mutual aquaintanaces who will be anti-marriage.

You also need to be careful of stirring up people, whom the spouse does not respect. At best, it will have no effect.
At worst... well, how do you think they will take it, if someone they HATE, starts bugging them to "work on their marriage" ?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle