Hmm - might be worth checking w/your L Donna. I just know I've seen people pay off "their" portion of the debt, only to get stuck splitting the remaining debt (the other spouse's portion) after a D. So they effectively end up saddled with 75% of it rather than 50% - all because they were trying to be responsible and pay their portion off.

But that can all wait til you get home.

HAVE FUN!!!!

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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