I understand your comments. It is so hard when we are still under the same roof and not even sleeping in the same bed. Going to work is what I need to do but while I am gone I can't help but think who she is talking to. It feels as if this new person is where she wants to go but she is not moving out. I am focusing on what I have to do including personal counseling. What a lousy way to live when your wife looks at you as if you are not worth her affection.


Me: 41
W: 40
D5, S4
Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007
Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007