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[Have Faith]

Hello Everyone;

Ok so after the blow out yesterday, H came home from the gym a little late. His excuse was he had to get a prescription filled. We continued to talk about him moving out on Monday. He told me that he didn't want to move out, even though his e-mail said that he did. I just told him I thought it was for the best for now and that I needed to begin detaching. He appears now to be worried that when he finally gets his head out of his a@# that I might not be there for him. I told him that was a possibility. He told me that neither one of us would ever be able to detach because we had to much of a bond together. This surprised me as a couple of months ago he was ready to give up everything and move on. We don't even have children. I told him that we could still see each other, but not to be surprised if he saw me out and about with other people. If he could play this singles game, then so could I. He complained that he would be sleeping on an air mattress and living out of Walmart bags at his friends house. I told him that he could get an apartment, he didn't have to stay at his friends. He said NO that is too permanent. He didn't want an apartment. I also told him that this had to be a big stress relief to him as he would not have to lie (at least not to me) and hind his tracks anymore.

When we went to bed he was very touchy with me (he is not a touchy type of person) and spooned with me this morning before he got up. Maybe a little reality has sunk in. Don't know. Since we aren't bickering, perhaps I will play golf with him on Sunday. I know that the OW has told him that she has absolutly no interest in playing golf or learning how. She is a runner (which he does not like to do).

I'm ok with this new arrangement. I won't have to wonder where he is. I will be GAL. I have decided that since he doesn't wear his wedding ring, then I'm not going to wear mine anymore. What do the rest of you do. Do you wear your wedding ring or not?

I'm in good spirits for today.

Faith