Thankyou so much for replying to my thread, it's all so confusing. I truly believe that my husband is desperatley trying to become the good man that he once was, i sense that he is not happy being the person he is right now. These last couple of days he certainly seems to have realised that he needs to be there more for D3 which is great. He starts his new job in couple of weeks, this is also something he has not been happy with for a long time, so hopefully the new job will make him feel a little better.
However i still sense that even though he will have changed everything in his life this past year (OW, in debt now, new job, new car etc) he is still going to feel like there is something not right, i know he still has some soul searching to do and he knows that i am here if he needs to talk to me.
In one of my post i explained that my husband was telling me that a few weeks ago things were racing round his head, he could not concetrate and when he tried to focus on any one problem, he couldn't. He said that he would set off to go somewhere, get in his car and forget where he was suppose to be going. Does this just sound like a bit of stress to you or more like depreesion?
The reason i ask this, is because my husband says he is not depressed, just stressed.
Hope you are ok?
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
