Nomopo's Sitch - Patience, Patience, Patience

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Hey Nomo, your sitch really is inspiring. Keeps reinforcing the Dr rules of patience and space. My M's spiral downward began many months ago with the same cycle of reasoning my needs away and withdrawing until I got over it. W took this to mean I did not care. Now the balancing act of answering our needs but giving them their space begins! I think we need to decide which needs to bring forward (ex: my ring sitch, not bringing up...my need for a least a coutesy answer to a phone call, yeah we'll talk about that one). Not to say we should 'cover up' the needs not being talked about, more like remind ourselves "this is a need I have, but for now I must wait."
Take this high to Orlando with you, enjoy!