It's not necessarily about the emotions so much as it is just generally "hearing" what your spouse said. I have noticed on a couple of occasions my H got quite confused as to what I actually said, and I thought (and so did the ST) that I was perfectly clear. H's interpretation of it was totally different and I could easily see where we would have ended up having a very heated discussion had it not been for him/I not being able to respond to what each other said right there and then
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
