He still calls and wants to know how it is going. My MIL said get rid of him and live my life that I have put up with enough. She said if he thinks she is coming into this family lots of luck that I am one of her kids and she is nothing. One of my 8 SIL told me tonite that everyone is in disbelieve at what he is doing even his cousins. I told my MIL I am very easy going but when I am done I am done. She told me kick him out and say don't come back. SHE said you have done so much for him and do so much for him that I have enabled him and that when I am gone but OW won't do anything but want a commitment. She said you write a dairy of all that you have done and what he said to you and take him for all he's got. And she said if he thinks that he is going to get any of hers if he leaves with her he will get nothing. The sad thing is he would have ended up with it all. And he thinks he is a head of the game. My MIL said kick him out and you can live there for ever. My BIL said I am the one that takes care of everyone. WEll at least I know some one has noticed all the hard work. You know and my H is not a bad guy but is cetainly going thru a MIL. He has know Idea the impact of what is happening. He hasn't even contacted his youngest S that he is back in the country. He has lost it. Only thinking with one thing and it isn't the head on his shoulders......Someone told me it might be the best thing that ever happened to you. Keep your head up. I cried when I told my MIL that they are family I have ever know. She and my other SIL told me I will always be a part of their family. I know she will bullyher way in but might not have the reception she thought. Then of course he will blame me for turning everyone against him and her. Oh well !! Who knows what tomorrow will bring....
