How we became separated

[mkultra]

Journaling-
Disneyland was awesome as I posted elsewhere.
The weird thing is that my H finally came out about our marital problems to his real best friends just yesterday. He kept his troops in the dark until the last moment. I have no idea how explicit he was but I am sure he painted a pretty rosy picture of the sitch. He mentioned that he was living at his aunt's home. Best Freind asked how that was going. he replied ,"Fine." Other best friend mentioned how his parents divorced and remarried and were better off that way. End of discussion.

Wow, not even a slap on the wrist for putting his wife and kids and parents and in laws through hell. Am I exaggerating here? My Dad even sobbed when he found out as did my elderly neighbour who we dog sit for every winter! His best friends say nothing! Is that a dude thing? They are also fathers! How can they not tell him to snap out of it. Go back home. Save your marriage. Are you crazy for leaving your awesome wife for a vagabond street child?

Calming down. I read in some Christian marriage book that men need to be surrounded by other moral men. My H and I are not Christian but the message rangtrue to my ears. I love my H's friends and I wish they would have stood up for me. My H did not, his parents barely did. The only ones to do so were my H's female coworkers who would chase off his young OW if she stepped foot in his work! These female strangers who I do not even know by name had more moral conviction than men who I have know for 15 years! Heating up again!