DB Goal- Not to rally the troops- SOOOOO hard! I just spillled the beans twice today!!! I guess I need affirmation that I am not crazy. I need to make a connection with other women who may have marital issues too. I seek advice from people who care about us. I have such a hard time containing my frustration over my sitch. If someone asks me why my H is acting so odd or where has he been, I am honest!
That is a real tough one. One that I have failed miserably at, so I can't offer any advice. In fact, I am a little nervous about going to our mutual bar on Sunday because people 'know' about our sitch. Now I feel like a fool for opening my mouth. Of course, it was obvious that my H wasn't with me when I went without him (duh); intially I tried to play it off, but my veneer was too weak.
Over on the other site they suggest the all the troops possible be rallied; is there some place on here that says not to?
Edited to add- I read your other thread and I see what you mean about rallying the troops; you're trying to keep from hearing non-DB messages?
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Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
