What I meant was is that there seems to several different scripts as in play scripts that WA's are following. There's a script for those that never come back, there's a script for those that are stuck with OP and in your case, there's a script for the WA's that start out angry, get a taste of what real living is like and decide to make their way back. Your WAW is in the closing stages of the working to the script.
You need to get over this OM business if you want her back which you appear to do. Personally, I wouldn't but it's your life and because that's what you want, I want to encourage you.
However, if you are going to get back together then you need to within yourself, deal with the bitterness of this betrayal. Otherwise, she's going to move to town, get affectionate like she's promised and you're going to get your shorts all twisted up because of OM. That's not good Jet and it may mean the failure of your reconciliation.
Deal with it while she has given you the gift of time.
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
