My marriage is hopeless VI

[Hope_11]

Scott,

Why don't you tell me how you really feel about the OW

Whoops, I guess I was a little to blunt.

There is always another person involved, but the D is never about the OP according to the WAS.

Another lie from the WAS's...my H didn't leave me for OW...it doesn't have anything to do with her...or at least that is what he has always told me.

This is why God made M to be between two people not three.

Exactly, H told me he didn't want anyone to get hurt. I told him he should have thought of that before he started the A. There are 3 people involved when there should only be 2.

I wish there was something that I could do so they did not have to growup in a broken home like this. But the only control I have is when they are with me.

You are a great father. There is nothing that you can do about your wife...you did your best to save your marriage and keep your family together and never forget that. All we can do is offer a WAS a second chance and we both did that...they are just too weak to accept the challenge. All you can do is make the time that you spend with your girls the best it can and it seems like you do a great job with that.