You know, everytime I come to this board I am overwhelmed by what I read and tonight is no exception. Nomo, you are a great communicator, maybe you weren't in the past but you've learned from your mistakes. It just blows me away that you can be this in-tune with your feelings and emotions.
Originally Posted By: Nomopo
W did say that no, she doesn't think the OM is clouding her views.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but..that's bull. That is the alien talking. It does cloud your vision. Of course, there were problems in the marriage before the OP came into the picture BUT it is harder t see things clearly when you have someone "waiting in the wings". I guess I shouldn't say that with certainty b/c it's not always the case, I can just tell you from my own experience (and I mean when I was having an EA and then a PA). I just wish people in this situation could see it in hingsight.
I hope you don't think I'm trying to bring out the negitive in your post, but that just jumped out at me.
