I'm also confused how to feel about OM. On one hand I feel happy that I may be putting a bug in his soup. On the other, it bothers me that she is here with me talking reconcilliation and then goes back home to him. It makes me feel like giving the ultimatum but somehow I don't think that is a good idea. I feel pretty certain she is stuck in the mud on this affection thing because she can't give it to both of us.
Update on other developments today.
The ex has spent much of the day re-decorating our son's room....with existing things and things she bought on a shopping trip this afternoon.
We also went to our son's open house at his school. It is a Christian school and my ex asked what she should wear. I told her to stay conservative. She looked very nice but a little too low cut I thought for the occasion. I answered honestly when she asked and she got a little upset. She responded: I guess you can't accept me for who I am. Anyways, foot in mouth disease on that one.
