I do believe that if you are a true DBer people sit up and take notice - including a walk away spouse. True DBing is different from pretend DBing. DBing "with a catch" doesn't work because you are the one who gets hurt. If you DB with the intention of getting a spouse to take notice your head will not be in the right place and you only hurt yourself because you stay wrapped up in the situation too much.
I see it happen here all the time and I want to cry out but I know no one will listen to me so I don't bother.
They will listen.
I love this.
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
