CE - my H is adopted and only found out when he was 55 years old (long story) but unfortunately we only found his bio mother 6 months after she had passed away. Interestingly enough, no one knew about it other than her H (which I am still convinced to this day might be my H's bio father). H didn't tell the only child they had, until she had passed away and didn't want anything to do with my H. I did a massive amount of slouthing and found a number of organizations and church groups that she was a member of and not a sole had a clue about her "past" and another child (she was 25 years of age when H was born) - so, no, it doesn't surprise me that no one knows on your side either


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)