Hmmm.. in that case it might be good to ask him to return the TV and computer (per the legal agreement). Business-like, and shows you will be sticking to the agreement.

Dunno - OT, any thoughts??

Also, what about the filing cost? Did you agree to split that or was it discussed? That was the other tricky one in my opinion - especially if it wasn't agreed on.

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I don't want to be a b!tch about it, but I am also looking at how over $1000/month of family money that should have been going towards our kids' college and our retirement is now paying for his space. Not what either of us had planned for or wanted for them. It is so much more complicated with kids. We never had His $ / My $ - it was all pooled for the family. It kills me that the kids are forced to sacrifice because we couldn't figure this out...


I know - it's incredibly frustrating, sad, maddening, and more. But the sooner you can let that go (and not have that be a motivating factor behind asking for things/$$), the better off you'll be I think. Just for sanity reasons.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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