He did agree to leave all of the stuff in the house. Partly from guilt over the affair, probably more because I never wanted any of this.
One of the things that set me off last night at the parenting course were two guys joking during the break about how it got to the point that they had to get away from their wives, no matter what it cost. That is where he is.
I don't want to be a b!tch about it, but I am also looking at how over $1000/month of family money that should have been going towards our kids' college and our retirement is now paying for his space. Not what either of us had planned for or wanted for them. It is so much more complicated with kids. We never had His $ / My $ - it was all pooled for the family. It kills me that the kids are forced to sacrifice because we couldn't figure this out...
