W8ing,
I'm here, I agree totally. If I can just get through the next few days, h*ll, how about next few hours! My ss called and apologized to me; wanted to be sure I wasn't upset with him. He offered h to come to his new apt for now so h wouldn't sign a perm lease. We all know this is at most a temp fix but it was so thoughtful of him to think of and offer it. I told him not to ever worry; I love and appreciate his support to both of us-I expect no less! This isn't his battle, I think he knows it. All the kids are hurting already(except the young one) as she still has no idea. H wants to tell her now-of course he wants to tell the whole world but I said no (for now). I'm just not strong enough to pick her up from this yet. I need more time to think. What did you decide to do?

I'm so glad you spoke to your family; thats really great. Even though their oppinions are biased, I know they do stand by me no matter what. Whats so sad, I believed h would always do that for me too. I know, naive.


Me: 44
H: 47
M: 15 yrs
SS: 20
SD: 18
S: 15
D: 11
BOMB: H left 8/4/07