Ohh ok - I didn't realize he TOOK the TV, I just thought you were buying a new one. In that case, what did the agreement say about material items like that?? Or did it get into those?
My gut's saying let it go and buy your own TV. If you were to D, you'd split up household items and you'd each have to replace some things. It wouldn't be that you get to keep everything in the house and he buys new stuff - unless that's what you both agreed to.
For now you might want to just open an account in your own name/SS# and cancel all the electronic payments. Then you aren't having to worry about being overdrawn or what's coming out of where.
I'm lost on the credit card thing but hoping OT has some ideas!
Also check with a L about paying extra on the debt... normally I'm all for paying off debts as soon as possible, but in this situation I'm not sure that's the best idea.
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