No, you do not get to ask him to contribute to a TV
He took our family TV out of the living room when he moved--he should have bought himself a new one, like he bought a new bed, no?
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The money thing is a MESS.
I agree. The bank we use won't take his name off of the accts that are all set with the electronic payments. He opened a new acct at the same bank, and they linked the accounts because it is all under his SS#! I am going to have to bite the bullet and set up the electronic payments all over again in another new account in my name only. I'll have to do that when I get back.
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If it is a matter of transferring debt to his name that he agreed to on the separation agreement, notify him in a businesslike way that it is time for him to satisfy that obligation.
That is what I am talking about. The money to pay that balance each month was figured into the support $, because it is shared debt in reality and I want to be able to throw any extra funds I have at the end of the month on it to pay it down. He has to get it into his name, though as promised, and he is shopping for a better interest rate (which is in my interest, too, since it is joint debt).
OK, so not too bad. It was good to hear you remind me about moving on the money mess. I think I kept dragging my feet, thinking that this wasn't going to be a long-term thing. But it is.
