Are we piecing yet?

[Have Faith]

Thanks Concerned Listener

He did e-mail me back and asked if we could meet in the park for lunch. We work close to each other and have been having lunch once a week in the park together. So I met him.

I had calmed down before I got to the park and said prayers all the way there. I told him that I thought it was best for now that he move out so I could begin detaching. That he was on the fence and I need to get a life.

He said why couldn't you wait until after the 15th. WTF does the 15th have to do with it. He then reminded me that that was our 18 year anniversary of our first date. I told him that it had never meant anything to him before, so I didn't think it was a big event. Then get this. He asks me why we don't go on mini vacations, just the two of us. I have asked him SOOOOOO many times to do this and it never happens because of whatever excuse he happens to have that day. I reminded him of the last time I had suggest a week-end trip to one of three different places to be taken the end of May. Nothing happened. I told him that any future trips would have to be up to him and if I was available I might go.

I also told him that while I had seen lot of progress the first month he moved back home, I have not seen any in about 6 weeks. We'll see how the next couple of days go. I kept my cool and did not get all emotional. Just told him that he needs to come to some decisions over the next couple of months, get off the fence, and either sign the final D papers or commit to us. In the past he has talked me out of him moving out. I feel pretty strong about it this time.

Faith