The part about the OM & may it not work out... The way I see this at the moment is this...When she first left me her mind was dead set on things with OM being all that she ever wished for....However, time passes & she moves in with him & his kids...There has to be constant reminders of his dead W, the kids have photos etc & memories that will never leave them. W will now know this & see that things are not quite as she intended.
So I do know that it's crossed her mind that things may not be all they first appear to be..
We've had very little face to face contact since she left...maybe 4 times..The last time was when I took her the mail, about 2 weeks ago...
I know there was alot of emotion in that hug, it was not just a lets hug & get this over with & bye...It was long hard hug & I was supprised at just how strong she held on to me.
It's important to me to remain friends with my W I believe thats all that may be left of any R...As the days go by I am becoming more at peace with that thought....DB'ing will continue with the intesion of being friends. I would like to be the person that my W turns to if things do go to plan with the OM....My mother's couch may not be the best comfort zone I can offer, but hey, it is a nice couch lol....
