HBT - mom and was2sad offer some great advice. I know that when I told H the other night that I wasn't going to talk, he was surprised. I was nice about it, but firm. It is easier though to just be asleep. I did that last night. Just because your H wants to talk, doesn't mean you have to. But you do need to protect yourself in the financial area. I am trying to figure this out too. He was out buying furniture last night - that couldn't have been cheap - I'm am trying to figure out how that enters the picture and how to talk to him about it.
I have every intention of following mom's advice on breaking off all contact with him once he moves out. Mine will be a challenge because I work with him. Can't believe I am probably going to lose my job too over all of this... In any event, I think she is offering good advice in this area. I also am going to keep up the cheerful front for two reasons - first - maybe I'll start feeling more cheery if I act it and second - I know that he will be getting reports from all over (friends, family, girls) on my demeanor. As far as I am concerned he can think that this is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Was2sad - you really know how to write. You put a lot of thought into your post and I really took it to heart. Thank you for the time and energy you took in writing it.
HBT - hang in there - let us know what happens tonight and I will do the same on my thread. Post here on one thread - forget the other one for now so you are easier to find!
