we aare jumping back and forth here...just posted on the other thread about the finance talk. Actually, you do not have to do anything you don't want to do. Remember, only you can control your actions...not him!! If those charges are coming out of your combined acct, you have every right to know why the money is being spent the way it is!! If he comes home in a happy state of mind or not...don't have the conversation...how late is he going to be? Try to be asleep (or at least fake it)
