Whether we went out or not would make no difference. H already informed me he would be "late" the next two nights as he has dinner/work plans after work both nights. How crazy is this. Then he leaves Saturday. He says he can't stay her and keep going round and round with me. The weird thing is he's the one who's been starting all the 'talks'!
when he starts the R talks you MUST...I REPEAT MUST say to him...I am not ready to talk about this right now and WALK AWAY!!! no tears, nothing....walk away. mark my words you will shock him because it sounds like that would be a 180 for you. He is going rounds with you to keep him in control of the situation...break the routine now. Act differently. When and IF he really leaves on Saturday break off as much contact as you can with him. Let him call you...do not initiate phone calls, emails etc unless it is a major emergency.
