My .02. You are viewing the rings off her finger to be a sign of the end. You think that if she is not wearing them, then she is completely finished. Wedding bands are a symbol of marriage, of a loving and committed relationship between two people. Is that where you wife views herself today? It maybe that she is not wearing them, because they remind her of the emotional pain that they are tied to. It does not necessarily mean she is done, just that then bring too many painful memories of what they represent. Don't sweat the small stuff. Focus on the bigger picture and your goals. If you get tied up on assumption and tiny details, you will not be focusing on the bigger picture.
Best wishes. You are doing great, don't let the rings cause you to backslide. Heed the advice given to you above by EAA, Heimlich & Nomo.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
