Fran, how would it be if at 2 in the morning, you woke him and asked him to hold you while you mb? That can be very cozy, especially when your H is half awake, half asleep.
Because, apart from what I've already said about MBing not really working for me, cosy was NOT what I was after at that point. If cosy would have done it, I would easily have been able to sleep. What I woke H up for was a proper f*ck and to give him his due that's what I got. I'm not complaining. I'm just saying as Kettricken has also said if you over-satisfy your partner you're just never going to get them into pirate/wolf mode.
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
