I can't argue with your experience ... everyone is wired differently ... in which case that really kind of sucks, for both of you.

I will say, though .... if you haven't *tried* a variety of toys, you haven't fully explored this option.

A toy is no substitute for the whole package (sigh ....) ... but on the other hand, NO man can do some of the things a good rabbit style vibrator can.....

"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes.
Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert