Faith,
No, do not golf with him. I don't think you're in a frame of mind for it to be constructive. Unless, you two have a conversation before than that clears the air.

Hopefully, this crisis will get you two moving in a positive direction. Maybe golf at some point will be what keeps you two connected.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching