H: I got pulled this morning ME: Why H: Drink driving but was ok ME Good, glad everything was ok H: [censored] myself though, would have served me right ME: Had you been drinking H: LOL what makes you say thay? No but was looking at the vodka bottle last night. ME: just because you said that it would have served you right H:Well done it before, vowed never to do it again thats why i left my car at the club last week. Just thought when the cop was asking me, this would have been the end. If i had been caught, prob no job and then things start to downward spriral don't they. ME: At leasts everything was ok. H: Yeah gona sort myself out now, consentrate on D3 cos she needs to know that i'm there for her. Gona take her somewhere nice on Sat.
By this converstaion it would seem that my husband has started to realise some of his behaviour this past year. I am glad that he is aware of the fact that he needs to sort himself out. He phoned tonight but sounded very much back in MLCer mode, i think it is because OW is back today, his bandaid. I hope that it does not stop him from working on himself. However for the first time since the bomb, he actually asked me how i was feeling, i just told him that i was ok.
RCR and Snodderly, or anyone that may have some input
i was just wondering if you could just give me your thoughts on my last few posts. This is the most open my husband has been since the bomb, on one hand he seems to be going through depression but then today he seemed so together and realiseing that he needs to have a better relationship with D3. Is this normal?
Hope evryone is ok
Nicky
Last edited by nickyf; 08/09/0707:38 PM.
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
