I've also read and been told by my C that forgiving is a process. For awhile, you need to wake up each morning and "decide" that yes, I am forgiving H for what he did. Maybe today I don't feel like it, maybe today I'm pissed as h*ll about the whole sitch, but yes, I am going to forgive H because I do want this M. It's a process and it doesn't happen overnight unfortunately.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10