Making the Move

[Jen_Jam]

Hey Care
Just wanted to pop by and say heloo ... I remember chatting on the Boston weekend .. i LOVE your accent

Haven't got much useful to add .. in my sitch there was no OW (H didn't need anyone else to help him decide he didn't love me .. sigh) but I do have one thing to add....

Piecing is Loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong .... far longer I think than DB'ing, just not as intense. It's still a rollercoaster, don't fall into the trap I did once of thinking one downer was the start of it all crashing down my ears (thanks to Rob for pointing that out to me). You will both - you and H - need time to get over this. he will need his "forgiveness" and you will need your "apology". I've put these in inverted commas cos the actual words "I forgive you" or "I'm sorry" probably won't be forthcoming, but the actions for these will ... keep your eyes peeled for them.