Thank you. That makes me feel better, especially your comment, "There are always a few people who want to tell the spouse how they should be feeling. That doesn't fly in this group."
I am not sure this will work for her. I know one thing, unless she has a change of heart, she will not like this at all. Many times she has said in the past that "If you want to make this marriage work, you need to do this, that and the other." I kept quiet thinking to myself, "Gee, what is she going to do to make this marriage work? Why am I the only one that has to make changes?"
