W called me today & asked if it was ok to come & talk...I said sure & asked when...she said right now...so she came...
It was to talk about the sale of the house & I will try to keep this short & only put the improtant bits here...
She says she wants to help secure her future if things dont work out with OM...I cant remember her exact words but thats what she ment. She stressed this more than a few times too.
I told her that yes we can sell the house but I would prefer to remain here & pay her what i can afford....she said it would not be enough to pay even the car...I asked how much there is outstanding on the car?...She does not know!!!...wait...so how does she know it's not enough i hear you say...Surly if shes put alot of thought into this she would have done some homework?
I told her that if we have to sell this place I will end up on my mothers couch, which is true, & i will not even have an home to call mine....She said that neither will she, as OM house will always be his & his W (she's dead)...& my W wants to make sure that her future is secure....
In the end we both signed the sale agreement form but i could see that W was very upset while doing this....As she was leaving I could also see that she was hesitant in doing so...She had tears in her eyes & I almost broke down but remained strong...She said...well i'll see at some place or something...She then reached out to me & we hugged..It was such a great feeling that I have not felt in alomst 4 mths...She held me so tight I was about to cry..We just hugged for what seemed to be ages...but I knew we had to let go & we did....She left at that.
Sorry if it's a little hard to read but i wanted to get it down while i can remember lol
