Nice. His work just called here asking for him. The guy who called is someone that I have met several times at work functions, so he was friendly, identified himself, and asks for my H. He says "Is J there?" Me"...noooo......" Him "oh, he's not? This is R. Well, I called his cell and left a message. Any idea when he's going to be back?" Me" uh..nooo..." Him(sort of chuckling like he is feeling like he is getting H in trouble or something)"Um, well, okay. I just needed to get ahold of him." Me"if you left a message on his cell, that's your best bet." Him"okay. Well, if you see him have him call." Me "Will do."
I had asked him last week if he had told people at work and he said that he had told a few. Then he said "people can be so nosey" and I said "Oh yeah? I think people aren't nosey enough. I think that societal pressures are a good thing in helping people keep their commitments; and now that people are "minding their own business" even more marriages are crashing and burning." Him "yeah, I can agree with that."
I would have thought that he would have told the guy that called--and now I am sure the guy that called is wondering what the heck is going on and is worried that he just got my H in hot water.
Of course, now *I* am wondering where the heck he is (and if he is with someone.)
I am also wondering if I should drop him a text saying "your work is looking for you." (Maybe if he knew that it was important enough that they called the house, he would call them back.) I dunno.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing