Thanks, I really am looking forward to it. It's (rugby) is something I've wanted to do for quite a while, but never did because I like to hang around with my W and didn't want to put any undue childcare pressures/stress on her with practices and games on Saturday. THAT didn't work out too well for me, did it?
I have a feeling for the comraderie. I went to college at Southern Miss (105 miles north of New Orleans). Managed to get down for a few rugby parties. To my eternal relief, I was getting a pitcher of beer when my friend did his zulu.
By the way, everytime I see your name, I think "Superbad" and get a strange combo of that song and shaft stuck in my head.
No worries on the hijack. Been following DL's sitch and his convo is pre-planned.
Not much interaction with the W the last two days. I did mention that I plan on picking up rugby to her last night and would appreciate, whereever we are, her help with the girls so I can go to games/practice. She just kindof acknowledged with a nod. Can't tell if she is just totally done or if me doing all of this new activity, which I've talked about for a few years, is making a difference to her. As I keep telling everyone else, patience, grasshopper. I've decided to keep moving forward with my life and make myself happy. I'm still very much in love with her, but realize that nothing I can say or do to/with her right now will make a damn bit of difference in the way she thinks/feels. I've been telling her that I'll be OK without her. I'm just now starting to act like it. Just got an invite to a pool party with a former co-worker. He's a fun guy and his boyfriend (yeah, you read that right) throw good parties -- they have a stripper pole in their basement. Should be fun.
BD
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