DL, The R talk this weekend is a great chance for you to show your W the new, confident, GALing, non-clingy you. Listen, validate, let her know how you feel, but in a non-threatening, not desperate manner. You really WILL be ok. Actually, you'll be better than OK. You're on a path that will either 1) bring you and your W back together into an even stronger marriage or 2) allow you to grow to be strong enough to move on and be prepared to have a great relationship with someone else.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
