IK, CVA, Nomo- Thanks so much for your encouraging words.

Looking for positives is hard right now, but at least it's a month-to-month lease. Also, during the C sesh, he said he did not want a D. I have so many emotions swirling through me right now, that it's hard to think straight. I don't think I handled this news in the way that I would have wanted to. I was angry first and I think that clouded my reactions.

I am going to take the afternoon off and go somewhere alone, let H pick up and deal w/the kids. I don't think I can be together with everyone tonight.

How did you tell your kids that you/your S was moving out?


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08