Glad you can see where your W's are coming from in this particular area.
I know it can be a threat to see your W's get more independent but with your ongoing support it will make you shine in their eyes. Your W's need this and you both can help them along by offering words of encouragement and praise when they accomplish little milestones.
In your case Nomo, I can see why this has been a double-edged sword...But you are working on you, and together working on your R in JC...Hang in there. OM is just a bump in the long rocky road on your way to recovery.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
