It isn't over, but I know it is hard. Been there done that. Think of it this way (because it could very wel be true) - a separation may just be (and probably is) a necessary step for your H on his journey. Where that journey ends is not determined today. It just isn't. And he probably knows that he doesn't know where his journey will lead, even if he is saying he is sure the M is over. But what he does know is that he needs more time and space, and you know you have to give it to him for their to be any chance of reconciliation, and for him to heal himself.
Hugs, Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
